I am not married, I am still studying. But I am a literate person; I know who is a wife. Who is a wife? Dictionaries might define the word in many ways. But she the daughter of her father, who had a wife. Why am I writing on this topic? I don’t have wife, but what I hear and see on television is wrong. Literacy is not going to a good university, getting a PhD, but having no knowledge of how to treat people. Burn those degrees if you think that’s literacy, you should specially know how to treat your wife; But why? Not because you are married to her, but because you promised her, you will take good care of her. Be with her when she needs you. You promised you will support her. You promised to make her happy. Not only is her security your concern, but her happiness lies in you.

It is your duty to make her happy, to give her what she wants.

She does not only want you to wake up in the morning, when she gets up before you, makes breakfast for you, then before you come to the table, your newspaper lies there. You eat the breakfast and go to your office. She works all day maintaining the house cleaning. Doing every thing she can. So when you come home you realize she was caring for you. She waits for your call when you were at work thinking about you. How have you been? How was your work? You come home tired; she waits for you, makes tea for you. All she does is tries to make you happy, why can’t you make her happy.

She cries in her heart waiting for you to say you love her. She waits when you will come home and hug her and give her a kiss. She waits for you to take her to a candle light dinner. She waits for you to take her shopping. She waits for you to spend time with her. She waits, you will come home discuss you problems with her. Expressions matter, she loves you that is all I can say. She left her house for you. Now what else can any one say

The most important thing she is always there for you, but do you always stand with her. Neither am I supporting your wife. Nor am I supporting you. But what is a marriage? Have you ever asked your self? Think now before its late, before you shatter her delicate feelings into a million pebbles, tears might flow from here sweet eyes. Her heart might be stabbed with hatred. She might loose all her hopes. Her dreams may scatter.

She is a normal human being as well, she has feelings. Why do you want to break those feelings and torture that human being? Did she do some thing wrong, she cared for you? That was her mistake. She loves you was that her mistake? She wants to be with you. Why? Just ask your self why?

Defining marriage: not a signing on paper, not saying yes I agree to the questions asked on time of marriage. That’s all formality paper work to show the world you two have been married. But what a marriage really is the combination of the heart of the two people who are getting married. I agree to the fact, there can be NO two people who think totally alike. This is where LOVE comes in to action. How? This is the point when each of them makes a sacrifice when needed. It might be leave a habit. Or some thing, going to eat Chinese but wife wants to eat Mexican, why not make her happy and take her to Mexican restaurant.

I have placed a picture on the right, it is a beautiful rose, but how is the rose related to the topic. A rose is a beautiful flower, but it has spikes with it which protects its beauty, keeping it distinct, and unique. You wife is the flower, and you are the spikes. Might seem stupid, or idiotic, but the spikes do protect the flower. Not every one can break the rose and take it away. The flower gives the beauty to the whole plant. Now the plant is the family. So you wife is essentially a very important person who needs expressions, love, care, protection…

Is romance all she wants? Umm, this is hard for me as I am not experienced, any ways personally I think the answer is NO. But why do I think that way? I think she needs care, dedication, devotion, love, appreciation for what she does. But does this mean no romance? No well romance is an essential part of marriage.

Spend time with her, take her at the beach to see the sun set, take some days off go and enjoy at some places. Hang out, relax, and show her you love her. Be with her when she wants you. Indulge into her, love her for what she is; try to get her love by what she is. Take her to shopping, take her to candle light dinners. Love her, be with her. Neither will this ruin your life. But it will increase the love between you two.

Always take your wife shopping, I am not talking because I am still single, but I am thankful to my parents who taught me people should be respected. And the society taught me that wife is also a special person. She will the person because of whom you will get children. Your own children of course, definitely you might be thinking why am I writing or how am I writing this? Well it is obvious. I know how life works, I might be just 20, but I have brain that works. I understand other people, so at the end I solute all the happy marriages and all my wishes are with all the beautiful couples who are still trying to make a happy life….